Pi\u0161e: Senaida Sarajli\u0107<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Fotografija: Canva<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Juni \u2013 jedini mjesec u godini posve\u0107en mentalnom zdravlju mu\u0161karaca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Da, dobro ste \u010duli \u2013 postoji takav mjesec! Iako neslu\u017ebeno, inicijativa za njegovo obilje\u017eavanje potekla je od Men’s Health Network (MHN), nevladine organizacije koja se bavi promocijom zdravlja mu\u0161karaca i igra klju\u010dnu ulogu u podizanju svijesti o ovom pitanju.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tokom juna, dru\u0161tvo se na kratko usudi da na\u010dne jednu od svojih omiljenih bajki \u2013 onu o mu\u0161karcima koji ne pla\u010du, ne pokazuju emocije, ne tra\u017ee pomo\u0107, i naravno, nikad ne postanu \u201epapu\u010dari\u201c. Od malih nogu poruke su jasne i uredno ukra\u0161ene plavim balonima, spremne uz poklone superheroja i plasti\u010dnih alata za popravljanje svega, osim sopstvenog unutra\u0161njeg svijeta, zarobljenog u o\u010dekivanjima, patrijarhalnim vrijednostima i normama.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I tako, kroz \u017eivot, mu\u0161karci ispod svojih herojskih pla\u0161teva skrivaju rane, nastale gleterom i hoblom iz onog jednog plasti\u010dnog seta, koji ih je majstorski nau\u010dio da budu jaki, da navla\u010de fasadu boje \u201emu\u0161kosti\u201c, jer ona se ne runi, ne puca i ni slu\u010dajno ne skida. Ako bi je skinuli, digla bi se pra\u0161ina, a nau\u010deni su da se pra\u0161ina ne di\u017ee. Umjesto toga, u njenim slojevima skrivaju se usamljenost, anksioznost i depresija \u2013 i onaj tihi osje\u0107aj da su nedovoljni, ako ne uspijevaju opravdati ono \u0161to se od njih \u0107utke tra\u017ei: da budu \u010duvari prezimena, branioci porodi\u010dne \u010dasti na liniji otpora od svega \u0161to ne stane u kalup tradicionalnog mu\u0161karca.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Bio nov, tek kalupljen za dje\u010daka ili star godinama i ve\u0107 otvrdnuo \u2013 taj kalup rijetko ste\u017ee samo njih koji su u njemu.\u00a0 Ni \u017eenama nije dozvoljena ranjivost u punom smislu \u2013 njihova ranjivost se naj\u010de\u0161\u0107e prepoznaje kada je u funkciji tu\u0111e. One su tu da slu\u0161aju, tje\u0161e, razumiju, da \u201edr\u017ee ku\u0107u i njega na okupu\u201c, a svoje potrebe pa\u017eljivo sklanjaju pod tepih.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Zato juni ipak nije samo mjesec mentalnog zdravlja mu\u0161karaca i svakako nije, mjesec takmi\u010denja u patnji, ve\u0107 samo prilika za podsje\u0107anje da patrijarhat nije \u0161tedio nikoga.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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